Thursday, March 31, 2016

Return to Brazil - The Long Written Version

This is going to be a really long post, but I consider it family history, so it'll be worth it to have recorded!

In 2000-2002 I served as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints in the cities of Goiânia, Uberaba, and Caldas Novas, Brazil. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, but also the best thing I've ever done in my life. I never regretted it and I grew so much as I served the people of Brazil and spent every single day for a year and a half teaching about Jesus Christ.  
I have wished to go back to Brazil ever since I got home from my Brazil Goiânia mission 14 years ago.  I even tried once, but I was flying on a stand by airline buddy pass and days before I left, the flight home oversold, which would have left me stranded in Brazil for several days, in the middle of my college semester.  So when a joint mission president (I had 2) reunion was announced last fall, we decided to make this trip happen.  I had one condition – that I could take my family with me.  I had to introduce my husband to all of my Brazilian friends (and vice versa) and my children have grown up hearing stories about Brazil and being sung bedtime songs in Portuguese.  We purchased tickets for everyone, but even though 1 1/2 year old Kathryn would fly and stay for free, we recognized how miserable she would be during all of the traveling.  It made my heart ache, but I knew she would be so much happier staying home with her Grandma and Opa (which she was).

It was a long preparation process.  We had to get passports for Tyler and Lydia, and visas for all of us.  $700 in visa fees for our family just to visit Brazil for a week!  It took months and a visit by my sister to the Brazilian consulate in CA.  And who knows if I will ever go back to Brazil?  So I shopped and shopped and filled up an entire suitcase with presents for my Brazilian friends.  That was the fun part!  Kristen, my sister, asked if we wanted a nanny.  Why, sure!  So we helped with some of her expenses and she came along to help with her niece and nephew.  It was nice to have her along.

The day of departure arrived, Thursday, March 24, 2016.  We were all packed, Callie had her cat sitter lined up, and we were headed out the door to drop Kathryn off and go to the airport…when we received a text that our flight out of SLC had been delayed.  Again and again and again.  Mechanical reasons.  However, this was bad because we were flying Southwest (SW) on free mileage tickets just from SLC-LAS-LAX.  There we were supposed to meet up with Kristen with plenty of time to pick up our luggage, change terminals, and catch our American Airlines (AA) flight from LAX to São Paulo.  Well, because our SLC flight was so delayed, when we got to Las Vegas, we missed our connecting flight to Los Angeles.  Which, in turn, meant we missed our flight to from LAX to Brazil.  

We had made the rookie Amazing Race mistake.  Instead of taking a later in the day SW SLC-LAX direct flight with a short layover to catch our AA LAX-GRU (São Paulo) flight, we booked an earlier in the day flight with a required plane change in another city.  Hence the mistake: If using different airlines to make it to a destination, always fly direct. 

So here we were, stuck in Las Vegas, already knowing we had missed our flight to Brazil.  We never even made it to Los Angeles because our new flight from LAS to LAX was delayed as well.  I spent hours on the phone trying to find an alternate flight out of the country.  American Airlines reps were not very helpful – lots of time on Hold and every flight they found would get us in to São Paulo too late for the mission reunion.  Enter sister Lisa, travel agent extraordinaire.  She found us new flights out of Las Vegas that would get up to São Paulo early enough for the mission reunion on Saturday morning.  We had to purchase brand new tickets, but we could leave the airport and get some sleep at a hotel, then start again tomorrow, flying out from from Las Vegas.  We were exhausted and by this time we could have just driven to Las Vegas in the 1st place, because all of the delays had taken so long.

Tyson went up to the SW desk and asked tem to release our luggage since we wouldn’t be flying to LAX in a few hours after all.  You want the irony?  Even though SW couldn’t get us to LAX airplane on time, our luggage was had made it.  So there we were, stuck in Las Vegas, no luggage and no idea if we would get it back in time to fly to Brazil.  I would have had a more adventurous attitude – it’s okay, we can buy toothpaste and pajamas in Brazil - but my suitcase full of gifts for my Brazilian friends was lost!

So, we arrived at our hotel very late, slept in our clothes, and prayed for the return of our suitcases.  Meanwhile, Kristen, who lives in California, had taken our original flight to Brazil.  Since she was going to be stuck in the country for about 20 hours, not speaking the language, she booked an English-speaking Marriott hotel near the airport to wait for us.

Friday morning dawned.  You would think we could have slept in, since our flight didn’t leave til after 1pm, but we were traveling with 2 kids who wake up with the roosters, plus we needed to get to the airport early to try to get our luggage sent back to us.  The best part of our whole trip so far was when we walked over to the baggage office and there was our set of beautiful light blue rolly suitcases, waiting for us.  Fresh from their flight back from California that very morning.  Prayers answered!

We boarded our long flight from LAS-Miami and flew across the country without incident.  The kids had their new books and tablets so they were entertained and happy.  At last, we were on our way to Brazil!

Guess what happened in Miami?  Our flight to São Paulo was…you guessed it, delayed!  Our plane couldn’t park at the gate because another plane was late in departing thus blocking the gate.  We kept our spirits up and finally boarded.  I figured we would only miss the breakfast portion of the mission reunion.  At this point I was texting back and forth with my mission friends, giving them the heads up.  Well, we no sooner got settled in our seats - the kids super excited about the free earphones and TVs in the back of each plane seat - when it was announced that everyone had to get back off the plane.  A security check (what???) needed to be performed and we’d better take all of our carry ons with us or they would be gone when we got back on.  Scary.  Tyson questioned if we should even get back on.  But an hour later we did.  By now it was midnight and We. Were. Very. Late. :: sigh ::  Oh well, you do the best you can.  Tyson and I talked about the disappointment of arriving so late to my mission reunion for which we had planned and prepared for so long, not to mention buying 2 full sets of expensive plane tickets.  We talked about how many prayers and even fasting had gone into pleading that our family would be safe and we would get back to Kathryn safely.  In the end we concluded that maybe there was a reason we arrived when we did.  Maybe something unsafe would have happened had we arrived a day earlier and spent some time in the city.  São Paulo is not exactly the safest city in the world.  Far from it actually.

Our flight from Miami to São Paulo was as comfortable as a plane can be (I’m pretending I don’t know what First and Business class are like from my Delta Airline days) and entertaining with the TVs in front of us.  We did get a bit of sleep too.  Tyler stretched full out on me and Lydia snuggled with Tyson behind us.  We even flew over Uberaba, one of the cities I served in!  That’s as close as I got to re-visiting my actual mission, but you can bet I waved! 

Upon arrival, Saturday morning, there was a lot of airport walking, luggage gathering, Customs clearing, and hurrying to change clothes in the bathroom.  It took a long time to get out, but when we did, there was Kristen waiting for us!  I hurried and found us a taxi, breaking out my rusty Portuguese.  I told our taxi driver we were late for a meeting so to drive fast, but safe!  He assured me he would – and then proceeded to scare the daylights out of us and he weaved in and out of traffic for the next 45 minutes, using his blinker only once in awhile and changing lanes just inches from other cars.  We are all very grateful that his brakes worked.

An hour and a half late to the mission reunion, we pulled up to the church located a few minutes away from the temple.  I saw a young girl outside with the face of Sister Regina, one of my dear mission companions, and I knew right away it was her 11-year-old daughter, Lorrayne.  Her face lit up too as she ran to give us hugs.  Then we all tip toed into the chapel with our suitcases rumbling extra loud as we wheeled them over the tile floor.  I had missed the breakfast, the mission theme and song, and President Casado’s talk, much to my sadness, but arrived in time to hear President Barbour.

I was jet lagged and struggling to readjust to Portuguese, the whole mission reunion kind of felt like a dream.  Hugging Sister Regina (so tight, just how we planned our reunion, all those years ago), Sister Elias, and Sister Brandão, my companions, was wonderful, but how do you catch up after 14 years?  You just hug again.  And meet their children.  Hugging the Elders was odd, but it was so good to see them too.  Speaking face to face with President and Sister Casado and President and Sister Barbour – there was so much I wanted to say, by way of thanking them for heir service, for being there for me, for all of us, but I just didn’t have the words.  I felt like I was 6 months into the mission again, understanding about 2/3 of what people were saying.  It was hard on my pride, but everyone, of course, was kind.  I forgot what it was like to decipher rapid speech and different accents.  My companions were by far the easiest to understand – I remember it being the same in the field as I was learning the language.  By the end of our trip, I had my Portuguese sing-song rhythm (that’s the best way I can describe it) back and was speaking much better.  We should have done Rio first so I could be rusty in my language there and more fluent by the time I arrived in São Paulo!

The reunion was scheduled to go until 3pm.  There were speakers (mostly the Presidents and their wives), but mostly mingling and photo taking.  I was worried about how Tyson, Kristen, and the kids would entertain themselves.  I was so pleased to see Tyson surrounded by English-speakers, whether spouses or former Elders, everyone was so inclusive.  I was floored to notice 8 year old Tyler and 5 year old Lydia running around with huge smiles on their faces, chattering away in English to the Brazilian children, who were chattering right back in Portuguese.  They didn’t understand each other at all, but were having the time of their lives together!  I thought Tyler and Lydia would be clingy or stay shyly in a corner playing with toys and books that they brought.  Instead, they rarely even checked in, they were so busy with their new friends.  It made my heart happy to see my children with the children of Sister Elias and Sister Regina.  Kristen mingled with the English speakers and a camera, so she was fine too.

We had a little room upstairs in the chapel where we took all of our stuff during a break.  I assembled packages for my friends and brought them up with their families to give out the gifts I had brought from the United States.  Shipping items from the U.S. is so expensive so I was grateful for an entire heavy suitcase packed full of stuff!  

It felt like Christmas with the family of Sister Elias.  The thing I was most excited to give her was a Canon Rebel T1i.  That’s the DSLR camera I started out on and I loved it.  She’s really interested in photographing nature and I have wanted to give her a camera for a long time, but I couldn’t ever afford the camera plus the shipping (that alone would be around $100).  Since the reunion, she has posted a bunch of pictures on facebook for me to see.  Elder Pasti, who visited the U.S last summer, had a bunch of requests for things he missed, which I was happy to find for him.  He was so supportive and helpful in helping us figure things out to get to the reunion.  He’s a good friend.  I had little bags of treats (like Pop Rocks, heehee) and things for Sister Brandão and Elder Moncada too. And for the mission presidents and their wives.  Sister Elias surprised us with grifts she had handmade for each of us.

As the reunion wound down, we were among the last to leave.  I said goodbye to Sister Elias and took her family’s photo in front of the chapel.  Her family is darling.  I wish I could have had more time with them.  Sister Elias still cracks me up.  Earlier when we were grouped together for a pictures of the Sister Missionaries, she smiled for the photo and then said, with her dry wit, “Oh, wait, let me put on perfume first!”  I was one of the few that caught her joke.  She always had me laughing in the mission. 

The temple was about 5 minutes away and I wanted to go take pictures, but instead of letting us call a taxi, several people offered our family a ride over – all 5 of us and all of our luggage.  It took more than one car, so we were grateful!   

We ended up staying on the grounds of the São Paulo temple for a couple of hours.  No one would allow us take a taxi again the whole time we were in São Paulo, so we were able to wait at the temple for our ride to Maua, where we would spend the night.  Sister Regina’s husband, Fernando, has a brother who was at the temple (tag teaming his wife to do a session because they had their small child with them).  He had finished and was waiting for her to come out.  Ricardo insisted on helping Fernando drive us to Maua, and then turn around and come back to his home, by the temple – that’s a 3 hour round trip.  Brazilians are not only kind, but so very generous too!

Staying on the temple grounds was probably my most favorite part of the São Paulo portion of our trip.  It was beautiful and peaceful. The pressure was off from the whirlwind of greeting and speaking with so many people from my mission, one right after another.  I took family photos for Elder Pasti, Sister Regina, and Fernando’s brother’s family, as a thank you.  We took our own photos and we sat on the benches and on the grass and relaxed and talked.  I watched my children arm in arm with Sister Regina’s children.  Elder Kasimerczak, who had been an AP during the mission, and his wife came over and chatted and chatted.  I could picture him and his wife being very good friends with Tyson and me, if we all lived in the same ward (and country).  People would come out of the temple and come over to chat.  It was fun to see mini-reunions of Church members who knew each other in some way or another and just happened to be at the temple that day.

After the sun set, we loaded the cars, Lydia on my lap, and drove an hour and a half through the streets of São Paulo to the suburb of Maua where Sister Regina and her family live.  To show our appreciation we asked if we could treat everyone to dinner at a real Brazilian Churrascaria (high on Tyson’s Brazil To Do list).  It was late and everyone was tired, but the food was so delicious.  If we weren’t so tired, I could have stayed another hour just to let my stomach settle and eat some more!

At last we arrived at our hotel, the Travel Diamond Inn.  It was nicer than I had expected (because of the Google Maps Street View portraying lots of graffiti decorating the wall across the street).  Exhausted, everyone quickly went to sleep, except for me – I was still working on a talk for church tomorrow.

Sunday morning was Easter.  Aunt Kristen made sure the Easter Bunny knew where to find Tyler and Lydia, much to their delight.  They each received a small basket with a few treats.  Fernando picked us up for church after breakfast.  They meet at 8:30 in the morning in a beautiful tall building about 5 minutes away, by car, from the hotel.  Relief Society was first.  Followed by Sunday School and then Sacrament meeting.  Everyone was taken care of.  Tyler and Lydia had a Sister missionary from the U.S. and also a Brazilian former Sister Missionary (who served in the states) to translate.  Tyson had Fernando, who speaks English really well, actually.  And Kristen had a young man in the ward who adores English and was happy to translate.

Relief Society was first.  It was so good to be back among the Brazilian R.S. Sisters.  They are such good people.  Strong and just doing their best.  Sister Regina teaches Sunday School to a group of a dozen youth and I joined them because I had such a limited time with her.  The teenagers were all there at church so early in the morning, with eyes shining. I was so impressed with their dedication and knowledge!  

Fernando is the bishop so guess whom he called on to speak in Sacrament Meeting?  He asked me to speak on the topics of Faith and Jesus Christ and thankfully he gave me a week notice, but it's been over a decade since I've given a talk in Portuguese and I was pretty nervous!  Despite my tiredness, I was up til 1 in the morning making sure my translations were correct. Thank goodness for the Spirit!  To whom I give all the credit that my talk seemed to go well – and be understood. 

The Maua ward is a pretty decent size and I already feel homesick for it and the members that I met so briefly.  One of my favorite moments was walking down the hall and peaking into a classroom, seeing Tyson surrounded by people talking with him (or trying to) and making him feel welcome.

Like I said, today is Easter Sunday.  What a special day (and place) to be at church.  We were also well taken care of, chocolate-wise, at church.  After Relief Society, not one, but two women passed out treats.  More was passed out in Gospel Doctrine.  Then, at the end of Sacrament Meeting, the kids were given these huge chocolate eggs. They were like Kinder eggs with a prize inside, except they were homemade (and did I mention – huge)!

After church, we went to the Trindade home.  I’ve been imagining where Sister Regina has been living for years and now I got to see the real thing.  It took Fernando 3 trips to get us and our luggage home.  He is so service-oriented and kind.  I’m grateful my favorite mission companion chose such a good guy for her eternal companion.  Sister Regina described her city as ugly, but what I saw was beautiful.  The buildings on her street are colorful and the sidewalk has patterns and designs.   The front of the house where she lives is a pretty red brick with an even prettier wrought iron gate.  The family lives down the side stairs in a 2 bedroom basement apartment, with a small kitchen, bathroom, and living room.  Colorful houses and greenery are the view from the back patio and we saw even more greenery on the outskirts of the city as Fernando drove us to the airport later.

We spent the afternoon chatting and relaxing at their home with a yummy traditional lunch lovingly prepared by Sister Regina.  My love language is Giving Gifts, so you can imagine how excited I was to pass out presents to everyone!  One whole suitcase was full of dresses and candy and anything I could think of that would be unique to them or church-related, but hard to get in their city.  Lorrayne, Emilly, and Luana were adorable.  Luana (3) was a tough nut to crack but we did our best by bringing out bubbles, Pop Rocks, and Jelly Bellys.  Sister Regina took me into her bedroom and showed me the 8x10 framed picture on the wall.  It was a Greg Olsen picture of Jesus and the sparrows that I had given her on the mission.  I had completely forgotten about that, but reading the note 23 year old Sister Hillier wrote on the back brought tears to my eyes.  These people are so good and humble and faithful.  I am a better person for having served in Brazil and for knowing them.  My kids and husband are better people for having met them. 

No one wanted to say goodbye a few hours later, but it was time to move on.  We had a flight to catch to Rio so we wouldn’t arrive too late at night.  You know how you hear horror stories of Americans in foreign countries getting stopped by the police for no reason and then having to bribe their way free?  Well, imagine my concern when a police barricade on the highway pulled over Fernando for no reason (he was not speeding), but there he was explaining his car full of American tourists all squished in the back, Lydia on my lap.  They had Fernando get out and talked with him and looked at paperwork for the longest time.  Finally they let us go (phew!) and it was a mad dash at the airport, but we made our flight just in time!

Domestic flights in Brazil are far superior to those in the US.  I was impressed!  The flight from Sao Paulo to Rio de Janeiro was cheap, but it wasn’t a budget airline at all.  If you book early enough, you can get a flight for around $60.  And even though it was only a 45 minute flight, the flight attendants right away starting serving drinks – and a meal.  Good sandwiches, a side, and a dessert.  Why, thank you!

Flying into Rio, seeing all the lights was so beautiful.  Even though I speak the language, and I could get us around just fine using public transportation, Rio is still considered a very dangerous city and it was nighttime.  Because of that, we took every precaution.  I paid to have a driver meet us when we landed.  First time I’ve ever had someone at the airport with my name on a placard, waiting to escort us to a vehicle!  Fancy.  He drove us to the outskirts of the city (safer than staying downtown) in the Barra da Tijuca neighborhood (fun fact – that’s where the LDS temple is being built!), as far as he could, which happened to be a dock.  You see, our lodging was a Bed & Breakfast on an island (Ilha Primeira) up the river!  We loved how secluded it was.  The only people on the property were our family, the owner, and an older British couple. Our super friendly, English speaking hostess, Silvia, met us at the Utrópico Guest House dock and adored the children right from the start.  We had to take a water taxi every time we wanted to leave or come back, but we were no hurry and it was a fun water tour every time.  I might have been a little more nervous if I would have known beforehand that there are alligators hidden in the murky water.

It was late when we got settled and our stomachs were rumbling again, so we took a water taxi over to a nearby island that Silvia recommended.  The kids were on their 2nd (or 3rd or 4th?) wind so they happily chattered away with the British couple, while waiting for our food.  And then Lydia noticed the empty stage.  With Brazilian music playing through speakers somewhere, she got up there and danced her heart out for us.  The video footage is priceless.

Monday morning we woke up to the sun peaking through the curtains in our large B&B apartment.  Kristen and Tyler slept on the main floor that also had a kitchen, bathroom, and sitting area.  Tyson, Lydia, and I had beds and a bathroom (do NOT touch the showerhead unless you like to be jolted by electricity) in the loft.  Breakfast was every morning on the front veranda, watching the boats pass by in the river, and trying to find Mickey, the resident cat.  Fresh fruit, grilled cheese sandwiches, pão de queijo, and orange juice.  Yum!

One of our Rio precautions was to hire tour guides to take us to all the sites.  It was so worth the money to have the safety of a local to escort us and to not have to waste time finding taxis (especially one that would fit all 5 of us).  We had an English speaking driver who knew how to navigate the Rio streets/traffic, knew the ins and outs of the tourist sites and ticketing, and had plenty of knowledge to share when we asked questions.  Plus it was awesome to have someone to take pictures of all of us together!

Daniel Cabral (top rated tour guide on Trip Advisor) picked us up right at the dock and off we went!  First stop – the city’s rain forest (no monkey’s spotted, unfortunately) with time to splash in a waterfall, followed by the Chinese View.  This city does not lack for views.  Rich and poor alike have properties with beautiful panoramic ocean views.  Back in the city, while waiting for Daniel to find a parking spot (see, another benefit to hiring a driver?), the kids found a small Brazilian playground, where we swung on the plank board swings and teetered on the wooden teeter totter.  Lunch was at a perfect hole in the wall local restaurant (with rice and beans = happy Carrie!) close to the entrance for the Cristo Redentor/Christ the Redeemer.

We’ve all seen pictures of Cristo Redentor; the Savior, on top of a mountain, with His arms outstretched to the world.  The train ride to Corcovado Mountain was so steep, my ears popped.  It was pretty hot, but this stop was one of my favorites of our trip.  The significance of the famous statue, the incredible view, the best juice bar (any fruit you could want!), and being able to be there with my family (miss you Kate!), was just unforgettable.  Quintessential Rio de Janeiro.

Daniel then took us to his friend's jewelry shop, Moreno's, in Copacabana. Tyson wanted to get me a gemstone native to Brazil to keep as an heirloom of our trip. As we looked at Aquamarines, the store lady took Tyler and Lydia all around the store looking at items (reassuring me that she was having a great time with them).  Tyler was all like, "Now I'd like to see the diamonds, please."  And she would pull out a tray of diamonds, while he sipped his complimentary Guarana drink. It was pretty funny. They treated us very well there!  And I ended up with beautiful blue stone in a necklace setting.

There was no time to stop for dinner, in order to make it to Pão de Açúcar/Sugarloaf Mountain in time to watch the sun set.  That’s okay, there was pão de queijo everywhere (including at the gas station right next to our dock – a staple for us) so whenever we were hungry, we would buy a handful for each of us.  Anyway, we rode two gondolas up to the top and, despite the hoards of people, it was nice to just sit and relax and watch the sun dip into the ocean and the lights of Rio turn on.

One of the things I miss most about Brazil is the food.  I miss the rice and beans, pão de queijo, doce de leite, Diamante Negro, chicken stroganoff, fresh fruit, the juices, açai, and churros.  These aren’t just any churros.  No, with these, you watch as the churro cart vendor squeezes the churro full of ooey gooey yummy doce de leite, right in front of you.  I told Daniel that was one treat I hadn’t found yet.  What did we pass on the way home from Pão de Açucar?  A churro cart!  He pulled right over, much to my sweet tooth’s delight! 

We all slept well that night.  The next morning I reeeeaaalllly wanted to go hang gliding off a mountain onto the beach (Bucket List item), but I couldn’t talk Tyson or Kristen into going with me.  And I couldn’t shake the feeling that it would be a bad idea to venture out alone.  Plus I didn’t want to miss Beach Day! 

The Barra da Tijuca beach was walking distance (about 15-20 minutes) from our water taxi pier through a quiet neighborhood.  The beach was uncrowded, quiet, and beautiful, with sugar soft sand.  It was a wonderful blue-skied day to go to the beach!  Actually, we really didn't experience any rain while in Brazil.  Rare.  There were people up and down the beach selling whatever we needed or wanted.  For about $15, we rented 4 beach chairs and 3 big umbrellas for the whole day.  The vendor boys set everything up and tore everything down when we were finished.  I bought a bucket of sand toys for the kids to play with for $3 from someone else.  Kristen bought frozen açai for all of us from another vendor walking along the beach.  Poor Tyson stepped on a bee right as we got there and nursed a sore big toe for awhile, until he said bee sting or no, he couldn’t come all the way to Rio and not play with his kids on the beach!

When we were wet, sandy, and tired, we sloshed our way home, stopping at a neighborhood supermarket for Brazilian pizza and stroganoff take out.  And the requisite pão de queijo from the gas station.  I know that sounds odd, but the gas station had a whole little sandwich shop and bakery in there.  Back on a boat and back to our place we went.  Tyler and Lydia jumped into the B&B’s pool to wash the sand off while I enjoyed the peaceful outdoors.  It was seriously such a cool place to stay!  After dinner, it was still early, but we were tired, so Kristen had the genius idea to watch the new cartoon movie called “Rio.”  While we were in Rio.  Perfect!  The kids loved it and spent the next day looking for blue macaw souvenirs.

On our last morning in Brazil, we ate our yummy breakfast once more, bid a fond farewell to Silvia, and loaded our luggage onto a rickety water taxi.  They’re all different, as they are individually owned.  This one was literally a wooden raft held up with tires and with a shade cover of plywood with decorations on it.  Regardless, it had a motor and worked just fine!

After some miscommunication, we met up with our tour guide for the day, an eccentric Carioca (native to Rio - and proud of it) named Martha.  Her job was to take us to any other places we wanted to see before we went home later that day.  Another smart reason to hire a tour guide is that her vehicle hauled our luggage around safely all day.  I minored in Portuguese at BYU and one of my teachers spent a whole class period teaching us the song “Garota de Ipanema”/”The Girl From Ipanema” – so we stepped into the café where it was written.  Then we took pictures on Ipanema beach.  Then we walked on the famous Copacabana sidewalk and beach.  We went back to Moreno’s to pick up my Aquamarine and do some souvenir shopping there and in the nearby stores.  Senior Moreno was kind enough to gift Lydia a beautiful wooden elephant she had been eyeing.  Everyone purchased some Havaiana flip flops next door (even some for Kate) and we continued on.  Martha had arranged a fruit tasting for us at a street market.  For about $4 each, the man gave us sample after sample of so many different kinds of fruit until we were full too full for any other kind of lunch.

Oh!  I just remembered one other reason why I recommend hiring a tour guide.  Both Daniel and Martha did an excellent job finding bathrooms all over the city for our kids.

Our last stop was my favorite touristy stop. The Escadaria Selarón, also known as the 'Selaron Steps' was beautifully tiled by an artist, Jorge Selarón, who wanted to leave his artistic mark in the city. He spent years adding tiles. When people heard about his project, he started receiving tiles from all over the world.  We searched up and down the 215 step staircase until we triumphantly found not 1, but 2 Utah tiles!

We had a wonderful trip and made it home without a hitch.  Well, except for me losing half of our souvenirs (and a bucket of tears - mine), because I sleepily left a bag shoved under an airplane seat.  I felt so bad!  But I was able to make it right by getting the lost items all replaced by emailing Sr. Moreno (who didn’t charge us a dime!) and Martha, who went back to the tourist shops for us.  We ate our last pão de queijo and brigadeiro in the airports.  And arrived home, SO excited to see Kathryn again!  

I’m so glad we took Tyler and Lydia with us.  It was an incredible trip for them to see how real Brazilians live and worship, as well as visit an international tourist destination.  If I could do it again, the only thing I would change would be to visit Rio first to brush up on my Portuguese, then go see my friends in São Paulo. 

Soon after we came back, we were able to watch the 2016 Olympics that took place in Rio.  It was amazing to watch the bicyclists on TV pedal up the same rainforest road we had driven on and see the volley ball players spike the ball on the same beaches we went too.  As the cameras would pan around and zoom in on the city for the Games, our recently turned 6 and 9 year olds would shout, “We’ve been there!  And there!”


Yes, we have.  What a memorable trip!

Monday, March 21, 2016

New Home Remodeling

The new home changes and remodels came along quickly at first and then ever so slowly.  Putting our own touches in it makes it more exciting and feel more like home!
We stayed at Tyson's parent's house at first while they were in AZ for a month.  This was a blessing because we were all so sick in November, we didn't even felt well enough to move in to a new home, let alone unpack.  And it gave the painters and carpet layers time to do their work.
We changed Kathryn's room from this...
To this.  
With her furniture and curtains in place, it now looks almost exactly like her old room, which was my favorite room in our old house.
We painted Lydia's room from this...
To this.  Much better.
We put in completely new, clean carpet in all the upstairs bedrooms, then splurged on "chinchilla" carpet for the family room (thus named because it is so soft and we may or may not have done carpet angels on it).

A fairy named Snowflake moved in and leaves occasional notes for the kids.
We took out the white counter tops and had granite installed.  A reward for me for working so hard in my boutique this past holiday season!  Plus a new black sink with a sensor touch faucet (love it!).
It took for-ev-er! to get our basement finished.  2 1/2 months past schedule actually, during which time we were cramped with unpacked boxes and kids sharing a tiny bedroom (and you guessed it, still keeping each other up way too late at night), but it's finally finished.
  Lydia can finally get her furniture (which is actually nostalgically my set from when I was her age) and claim her room!  
And Tyler can move into his own room. 
Since he's stuck in the basement all by himself, we had to make Tyler's room exciting.  This is the best part - his bookshelf is actually a secret passageway!  
 And a fun lego light switch for Tyler.
Plus we have an office downstairs, that Tyson designed.  What a luxury!
We still need furniture for the front room and a storage bench for the mud/laundry room.  Plus a swings and a shed for outside.  But those things will come with time.